You must accept that the position is valid whether you agree with it our not, otherwise you disrespect my opinion as well as myself for holding it and of course will not allow yourself to even understand it.
Alright! Good start. Now we are on the path of understanding. If we cannot agree on our terms and definitions and our premises, we definitely cannot understand each other because we use different terms, different definitions and premises which do not have even an ounce of similarity to even discuss.
As I said, I enjoy that you actually participate in the discussion and presenting your points, unlike I have found of the others who ignore anything I said and just keep repeating their opinions without challenge.
God is not accountable for the evil humanity chooses to do. Therefore, if a man rapes another man, God is not to blame, that man is. Therefore to say God is evil because humanity participates in evil actions, really is far far away from my position. To say that God is evil because evil exists, means you think evil is inherent to God and again, really far far away from my position.
Now let us simplify this statement:
The existence of evil is part of God’s great and glorious will of this creation. The reason you (or myself) cannot judge God for these things because we are presently on the receiving end of the evil that exists in this creation and because we, like everyone else are looking into the mirror darkly and we reason like children. If our hope is in this life, then of course God would be seen as evil, because all that we are and will be is present, but is that what the disciples and prophets spoke of?
Romans 8:16-18
The Spirit Himself [thus] testifies together with our own spirit, [assuring us] that we are children of God. And if we are [His] children, then we are [His] heirs also: heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ [sharing His inheritance with Him]; only we must share His suffering if we are to share His glory. [But what of that?] For I consider that the sufferings of this present time (this present life) are not worth being compared with the glory that is about to be revealed to us and in us and for us and conferred on us!
You took a slipperly slope, in which you see the pain of childbirth to be the point of giving birth to children. Yes, you will suffer evil, that isn’t the point of evil in this creation.
1 Peter 2:19-20
For one is regarded favorably (is approved, acceptable, and thankworthy) if, as in the sight of God, he endures the pain of unjust suffering. [After all] what [a]kind of glory [is there in it] if, when you do wrong and are punished for it, you take it patiently? But if you bear patiently with suffering [which results] when you do right and that is undeserved, it is acceptable and pleasing to God.
James 5:9-13
Do not complain, brethren, against one another, so that you [yourselves] may not be judged. Look! The Judge is [already] standing at the very door. An example of suffering and ill-treatment together with patience, brethren, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord [as His messengers].
You know how we call those blessed (happy) who were steadfast [who endured]. You have heard of the endurance of Job, and you have seen the Lord’s [purpose and how He richly blessed him in the] end, inasmuch as the Lord is full of pity and compassion and tenderness and mercy. But above all [things], my brethren, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath; but let your yes be [a simple] yes, and your no be [a simple] no, so that you may not sin and fall under condemnation.
Is anyone among you afflicted (ill-treated, suffering evil)? He should pray. Is anyone glad at heart? He should sing praise [to God]."
2 Peter 1:4-8
"By means of these He has bestowed on us His precious and exceedingly great promises, so that through them you may escape [by flight] from the moral decay (rottenness and corruption) that is in the world because of covetousness (lust and greed), and become sharers (partakers) of the divine nature.
For this very reason, [e]adding your diligence [to the divine promises], employ every effort in [f]exercising your faith to develop virtue (excellence, resolution, Christian energy), and in [exercising] virtue [develop] knowledge (intelligence), and in [exercising] knowledge [develop] self-control, and in [exercising] self-control [develop] steadfastness (patience, endurance), and in [exercising] steadfastness [develop] godliness (piety), and in [exercising] godliness [develop] brotherly affection, and in [exercising] brotherly affection [develop] Christian love. For as these qualities are yours and increasingly abound in you, they will keep [you] from being idle or unfruitful unto the [g]full personal] knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One)."
If you think that you would be a person without choice, that you would know joy, that you would have emotional commitment and attachment to life and those lives around you should there be no evil, I am sure if that was the case, God would have created the universe and everything in it perfect…wait…
…could this be a belief you hold? That God created everything perfect and we ‘fell’ from this state into perpetual chaos? Again, as I said, if we hold to different premises, of course we begin speaking an different language and misunderstand each other (not saying you hold to this view, as you said you have a different understanding of Adam and Eve in the first place).
So as you can see, this is a discussion, we both have our ‘conclusions’ and I am absolutely willing and able to conclude my errors and refocus my understanding to what is true, but that also means I need to listen to your points too and your position. I didn’t come to my conclusion without studying it and questioning it and even facing off with my God over it.
We good and open to discussion?