Well obviously I was talking a lot about human responsibility, too. The key point in what I was warning about wasn’t human responsibility in cooperation, but trying to do it ourselves without any help. That isn’t cooperative responsibility.
Oh, certainly, it wouldn’t make sense to look for help from something you can’t quite or don’t believe exists! That isn’t pridefully trying to do it without any help. The attitude involved (I mean the attitude I was warning about, not your attitude) is the problem, not a question of belief about facts.
Certainly, yes, that isn’t useless dragon-peeling.
The wrong attitude would be something like, “Go away, Jian, I resent you trying to help me, I’m going to do this myself without you, me me me me me.” That goes waaaaay beyond taking personal responsibility, and striving for personal growth in strength and capabilities, into uncooperation.
Remember how CoJ ends: “I had been given my opportunities even to fight, to make my contributions. Given opportunities, given gifts – given everything. And I still wanted to take. …] Was I grateful? Did I receive my new opportunities, acting upon them? No. I was resentful. And I took those new opportunities, acting upon them. And that makes all the difference.”
Which is also Israel’s story in a nutshell: even when they aren’t resentful for their given opportunities, they still have a bad habit of wanting to take those opportunities instead of receiving them. And that makes all the difference in how they (and we, where Israel represents all of us) act upon those opportunities.
(Relatedly, it is by no accident at all that I named “Portunista” a name-form variation of Spanish ‘opportunista’, opportunist. She has to learn to be a good opportunist instead of a bad one. )