Sonia,
Greg wouldn’t hurt.
It’s long an drawn out, but basically it starts with the philosophical conviction that “relationality” is irreducible; or better, reality is irreducibly relational. That much might not be so objectionable. Process theists believe it, for example, but they posit a necessary God-world relationship to account for this. If God’s necessarily related, then he has to be related to something ‘other’ than Godself. Process theologians fill the blank with creation(s). So God’s necessarily related to some non-divine creation. Without some such created world, there is no God. And that’s how God’s essentially related. He’s never without some created order to relate to.
I take the traditional route and say the requirements of this essential relationality are in God’s case met by Godself. God’s essentially self-related. This gets unpacked as interpersonal relations (which is not as incoherent or self-contradictory as one might think, though there’s erasing all mystery–who would want that anyhow?). For several theological reasons I don’t use the created world to fit the bill as God’s necessary personal ‘other’ with whom God relates (as process folk do).
So for me, the only kind of God I can see my way through to believing in is a personal one, and personal means inter-personal. You can’t have a SINGLE personal being who’s maximally personal (and loving, loves goes with personhood) but unrelated to any other person. ‘Person’ is an inherently relational notion and the relations have to be between persons (who co-constitute the personal identities in relation).
So God, if personal, has to be inter-personally related. But that means you need a plurality of persons to exist necessarily. Where do you get them? You either (traditionally) get them by positing their existence as divine by virtue of consubstantial existence OR you get them by saying God necessarily creates worlds and relates to these worlds. The problems for the latter (process) view are fatal (for me). You can’t get the necessary ‘personal others’ for God to relate to just by supposing that God’s necessarily creates this world (or has been creating worlds like this forever), for not just any created entity will suffice. God needs a ‘maximally personal other’ if we’re going to say God is–necessarily–a maximally personal and loving being. That right there would (in my view) rule out ‘created personhood’ as filling the role of personal other for God. Has our world always, necessarily, been constituted by (among other things) ‘persons’? This world hasn’t. And why suppose (in fact HOW do we suppose) that if God’s always been creating, every world God’s ever created has from the moment of its inception contained maximally personal loving beings necessarily related to God (which is what you NEED if God’s essentially a maximally personal and loving being AND if God derives his personal identity from created beings).
But EVEN IF we were to suppose there have always existed ‘fully personal created beings’ (just saying it sounds weird), they’d be non-divine in nature, and I just don’t think they’d qualify to be the KIND of persons who could, through inter-relationship with God, empower God to be a divine person. God would derive his divine identity and personhood by relating to non-divine persons? I don’t see it.
The only way I see to get a maximally personal and loving God is to posit a plurality of persons whose relationality is uniquely divine and self-constituting. Jonathan Edwards’ paper on the Trinity (which Greg draws from big-time, though minus the determinism) works this out in a very cool way.
Many (maybe all) process theologians just bite the bullet and deny that God is necessarily personal. God ‘becomes’ personal and ‘achieves’ his personal being through time as creation evolves and personal created beings arrive on the scene. THEN God has personal others and becomes a personal being only by relating to them. Thus, God achieves his being over time via creation. What was God before personal others arrived on the scene? Who knows? But whatever he was, it wasn’t maximally personal love.
That was rushed and mangled. Sorry Sonia. I bet you’re thinking it woulda been better had I not said anything!
Pax,
Tom