Part of my Exegetical Compilation series.
2 Peter 3:9: “[The Lord] is patient with you, not intending anyone to perish, but all to make room for repentance.”
Some non-universalists appeal to this verse as evidence for hopeless punishment, or at least for hopeless death. But the statement has nothing to say about the death being hopeless, only that it’s something to be saved from, and the sooner the better.
Calvinists recognize and rely heavily elsewhere on {makrothemia} testifying to God’s intention to save sinners from sin, and believe (for various reasons both metaphysical and scriptural) that God will succeed in saving whoever He intends to save. But this same “patience” is testified in this verse! – and Arminians regularly recognize, that this intention includes everyone! A Calv interpretation of makrothemia plus the overtly obvious scope of intention would add up to Christian universalism.
Nor can this be voided by appealing to the “intention” as less than God’s chosen will, since not only is it connected with God’s {makrothumia}, the term itself is actually {boulomai} which means “counsel”, about which Jesus and apostles other than Peter have important things to say regarding God bringing about salvation, as Calvinists are very well aware in other regards! For example, when Paul expects his readers to ask why God judges evildoers whose hearts God has hardened in Rom 9:19, he imagines them asking according to the principle, “Who has withstood God’s intention?” The Hebraist says (Heb 6:17-19), “God, intending more superabundantly to exhibit the immutability of His counsel {boule}, to the enjoyers of the allotment of the promise, interposes with an oath, that by two immutable matters, in which it is impossible for God to lie, we may have a strong expectation lying before us, which we have as an anchor of the soul, both secure and confirmed.” James 1:18 says that by intention, God teems us forth (or gives birth to us) by the word of truth (a reference to Christ as Logos) for us to be some of the firstfruit of His own creatures – and the whole point to the firstfruit offering is gratitude for the promise that the whole harvest will surely be brought in! Again Paul writes to the Ephesians 1:11 that God works everything according to the counsel {boulê} of His will – an energizing will to which Calvinists appeal to in exactly this verse for predestined assurance of salvation. Christ Himself, as reported in Matt 11:27 and Luke 10:22, says no one can recognize the Father except the Son and whomever the Son intends to reveal Him.
Admittedly, the term (including its cognates) isn’t usually used to talk about God’s intentions, but much more often human intentions, but the few times it happens are occasions highly important for Calv soteriology per se. So to turn around and deny the strength of the term here at 2 Peter 3:9 seems highly inconsistent, and while not impossible would require strong contextual argument for a weaker application – though the context seems to reinforce the strength of the term (again) instead. Nor can the weight be avoided by appealing to the negative form of God “not intending to perish”, since the contrasting intention is immediately supplied, “that all should make room for repentance” and thus for salvation from sin.
An Arminian could reply that they certainly don’t interpret God’s patience with certainty of success, and such certainty of success isn’t otherwise testified to here; but the typical Calv reply about secret vs decretive wills can only be undermined by the presence of makrothemia in relation to the scope of God’s intention. (See also comments on vv.15-18 next.) Moreover, we know from other verses that we are already perishing now, and yet God can save us from that in any of various ways (even though we’ll all have to perish in at least one way eventually, even if there’s a rapture for some of us at some time – we may not all sleep, but we shall all be changed.)
Perhaps relatedly, Peter goes on immediately afterward to speak of the destruction of the heavens and the earth in very strong terms yet with a positive goal of restoration after the total destruction: “yet we, in accord with His promises, are hoping for new heavens and a new earth, in which righteousness is dwelling.” Calvs and Arms both typically don’t regard this as different heavens and earth, but as ones remade after destruction.