It doesn’t matter which scriptures we like. We can’t be united to Christ unless we obey Him. In Christ, we cannot separate obedience to Him from LOVE. I’m not talking about love feelings. Feelings come and go. We cannot be commanded to have feelings. But Christ DOES command us to love our enemies, that is, to pray for them and do good toward them. Christ gave a lot of commandments, many of which are recorded in Matthew 5,6, an 7. This is known as "the Law of Christ.
Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. (Gal 6:2)
If we call Christ “Lord” we must do what He told us to do. Otherwise He is not our Lord. Please read the following sayings of Christ carefully:
Jesus linked loving Him with keeping His commandments:
If you love Me, keep My commandments. (John 14:15)
The only way to REMAIN in Christ’s love is to keep His commandments:
If you keep My commandments, you will remain in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and remain in His love. (John 15:10)
Jesus doesn’t recognize as His servants those who call Him “Lord” and don’t obey Him.
“But why do you call Me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do the things which I say? Whoever comes to Me, and hears My sayings and does them, I will show you whom he is like: He is like a man building a house, who dug deep and laid the foundation on the rock. And when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently against that house, and could not shake it, for it was founded on the rock.But he who heard and did nothing is like a man who built a house on the earth without a foundation, against which the stream beat vehemently; and immediately it fell. And the ruin of that house was great.” (Luke 6:46-49)
Then Jesus gives a strong warning to those who call Him Lord but don’t obey. Even though they do many wonderful works in His Name, they will not enter the kingdom of heaven, and Jesus will turn them away!
Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’ Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.But everyone who hears these sayings of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell. And great was its fall.(Matthew 7:21-27)