Being made holy(imputed) objective
Being made holy(transformed) subjective
Three words that can be read the same and heard differently, and both “hearings” are true. I am “made holy” by the grace of God and the blood of Jesus Christ, yet, He exhorts me- “Be holy even as I am holy”, speaking of holy conduct from holy attitudes, the result of the manifestation of grace and growth in grace.
At no point can anyone do anything without God, obviously. But I was speaking of the lake of fire, and progressive sanctification being an experience of grace that those within the LOF have not yet partaken of-
But I am not trying to make an issue- I suppose in one sense we could say everything God has done is sanctifying in its ultimate effect. I was speaking more specifically- that I have not heard a common teaching that the lake of fire sanctifies, and that perhaps our application of the word differs.
I think Romans 6 explains sanctification as I am speaking of it.
I am speaking in human terms because of the weakness of your flesh. For just as you presented your members as slaves to impurity and to lawlessness, resulting in further lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves to righteousness, resulting in sanctification. Ro 6:19
Here Paul is speaking of a process of growth in grace that involves voluntary participation resulting in progressive sanctification.
For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality;1 Thess 4:3
Again here Paul is speaking of a voluntary process and a specific application of it. The degree to which we experience subjective sanctification turns on the fulcrum of our will, but we are nevertheless objectively holy by the action of Christ on the cross- but not until we have been brought into that grace by yielding to His Lordship.
I am not trying to define words for anyone else- I am just saying what I understand from the scriptures. The verses above illustrate that definition. That kind of sanctification is not available to those who have not yet partaken of the grace of God.