I’ll try to be brief here, as I gotta get going soon… just a question, to Derek, and Ruth as well…
Do you guys think God can’t use pain for good? And if not, then why is there pain, and what is it for, if anything?
I totally agree with you guys about how wrong it is to paint a picture of God as some kind of sadistic bully, and I agree that punishment in general doesn’t really makes things better, and we should try to find a better way if we can, but what if someone has to feel some kind of pain just to wake up, just to come to their senses and realize they’re on the wrong path? What if there’s just no other way?
I’m not saying that God is all about using pain to destroy people… I’m just saying that God could use pain to help people, or to get through to them…
And I’m not talking about torturing people…
I’m talking about something like drug intervention, detox, that sort of thing… I’m talking about speaking truth that may hurt into someone’s life, which would then lead to their healing and transformation…
I’m saying that healing may not always be easy… and I’m saying that some people are so screwed up, rebellious, and hard-hearted, that they may require some kind of cold slap of reality at some point, some kind of pain that will get through all of their crap and make them see, so they can be open to healing…
Of course I could be wrong about all of this, as I’m only human, and I can be wrong, but in my own experience, sometimes when the consequences of my bad choices have caught up with me, when I feel the pain of that, that’s when I’ve been opened up to repentance and change…
Also, you see examples of this sort of thing all over the place, and throughout the Bible…
What I’m trying to say is that pain may not be inherently evil, even though there will come a day when it will be done away with and will no longer be a part of things… I’m just saying that pain can be a teacher, even if only a first grade teacher…
And like Mel, I’m not saying that God is causing people to be raped or murdered for punishment. That’s just crazy and ridiculous, and we all know that. What I’m saying is that sometimes even restoration may require God speaking to a person through pain, at least at first, in order to get their attention… and not pain that irreparably harms them, but pain that gets through to them, while leaving them preserved and in one piece…
Again, I could be wrong about this, but I’m just keeping an open mind, because at least in my life I can say that I believe that God has spoken to me through pain, to get my attention…
At the same time though, I believe that God does not speak through all pain… a lot of pain is just there, and there’s nothing good about it, and I don’t know why it exists, or why God permits it to exist… this world is full of pain and suffering that is seemingly meaningless, and I can’t imagine that God would be speaking through it, let alone causing it… but I guess I’m just saying that maybe in some cases, God may speak through pain, or allow it, for some greater purpose, though not all the time…
Of course this runs into the whole issue of how much control God over His creation, and we run into the whole sovereignty/free will issue…
But I can say for sure, even while keeping an open mind about the question of how God may or may not use pain to achieve some of His good purposes, I can say for sure that I believe that God shares in our pain, and namely pain that seems to have no reason or meaning to it, that God shares in that with us, shares in our tears and our struggles…
This is a difficult discussion I know… it gets at the heart of who God really is and what God is really like and the ways in which He does things, which of course impacts how we see life and ourselves and each other and how we should live…
Hopefully we can all look for common ground, and learn and grow together, and be at peace with one another despite any differences of belief or outlook we may have…
Blessings to you Derek and Ruth, and everyone, and grace and peace to you
Matt