I think sin separates us from God from our side, more than His. He reached into our sinful cosmos and planted the seed of His heart in the person of His precious Son, to demonstrate just that. “If I am lifted up from the earth I will draw all men unto me.”
Meanwhile,(Eph 1) “In all wisdom and insight 9 He made known to us the mystery of His will,** according to His kind intention which He purposed in Him** 10 with a view to an administration suitable to the fullness of the times, that is, the summing up(gathering together into one) of all things in Christ, things in the heavens and things on the earth.”
I think His plan was, from the beginning, to create us in perfection, allow us to choose futility, then gather us back into an even deeper greater perfection of love by grace so that the joy of His fellowship with us and ours with Him and with one another would be full.(John 17) Thats why I believe that God is winning our wills not controling them.
(Rom 8) For the anxious longing of the creation waits eagerly for the revealing of the sons of God. 20** For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of Him who subjected it**, in hope 21 that the creation itself also will be set free from its slavery to corruption into the freedom of the glory of the children of God.
IMO, This futility is the potter’s wheel. In life’s circumstances His hands are upon us, grace is the water, discipline the fire, we are just clay. When we become content with that we are probably finished, cooked, “Well Done”
I also see this principle demonstrated in the creative act, at its core describing the nature of what God is doing throughout all creation…“In the beginning the earth was without form and void and the Spirit hovered over the waters”… In a sense(to me) this is more than a historic statement. It is a revelatory explanation of how God is making “all things new”… the futility(sin and death) being formless and void until the word enters… “By faith we know the worlds were framed by the word of God” even as the ages are being framed in the same way upon that foundation… “Let there be light” until all is formed and full in the image of Christ…“faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God”…“by grace you havebeen saved through faith”…creating liberty, a will liberated by love, by the fulness of God within, like a drop of water in a river, “His voice was like the rushing of many waters, like ten thousands of ten thousands praising God.”
After every knee is bowed, all those tongues praising Him, all the adversaries reconciled, all creation restored, renewed into a transcendent quality of life, all filled up to all the fulness of God, God all in all, John 17 fulfilled in the whole creation.
13 But now I come to You; and these things I speak in the world so that they may have My joy made full in themselves. 14 I have given them Your word; and the world has hated them, because they are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. 15 I do not ask You to take them out of the world, but to keep them from the evil one. 16 They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. 17 Sanctify them in the truth; Your word is truth. 18 As You sent Me into the world, I also have sent them into the world. 19 For their sakes I sanctify Myself, that they themselves also may be sanctified in truth.
20 “I do not ask on behalf of these alone, but for those also who believe in Me through their word; 21 that they may all be one; even as You, Father, are in Me and I in You, that they also may be in Us, so that the world may believe that You sent Me.
22 The glory which You have given Me I have given to them, that they may be one, just as We are one; 23 I in them and You in Me, that they may be perfected in unity, so that the world may know that You sent Me, and loved them, even as You have loved Me. 24 Father, I desire that they also, whom You have given Me, be with Me where I am, so that they may see My glory which You have given Me, for You loved Me before the foundation of the world.
25 “O righteous Father, although the world has not known You, yet I have known You; and these have known that You sent Me; 26 and I have made Your name known to them, and will make it known, so that the love with which You loved Me may be in them, and I in them.”