The problem is that we base our understanding on Sola scriptura. That means different theologians, denominations, bible and community churches, and TV evangelists, have different understandings to what the Bible contains and says. Now the Roman Catholic Church and Eastern Orthodox Churches, ask the right questions to Protestants:
Where does the bible come from?
How was it put together?
In Anglo-Orthodoxy": Why some Episcopalians are turning to Eastern Orthodoxy for spiritual enlightenment by William DiPuccio, Ph.D at Anglo-Orthodoxy it says,
So my summary is a hybrid of:
The scriptural insights and questions of authors Rob Bell, Gregory MacDonald and Dr. Bob Thiel at the Continuing Church of God
The theological insights of the Eastern Orthodox Churches
The mystical visions of Julian of Norwich and Tiffany Snow
The Roman Catholic and Protestant teachings on inclusivism
In terms of Universal reconciliation, I don’t attempt to explain things. I start with the revelations given to Catholic mystic Julian of Norwich :
The saying Catholic mystic Julian of Norwich,
I know a contemporary Roman Catholic priest, who can hear God speaking to him. He also has the gift of healing, where I’ve been on the receiving end many times. So I do believe Julian’s account.
I also believe contemporary Tiffany Snow’s visions in Stigmata, as I had extensive communication with her Old Catholic Church priest husband. I was a bishop in the independent Catholic movement at that time.
Now it could be both Julian and Tiffany have had false visions, hallucinations, mental derangement, etc., but I don’t think or believe so.
But I do allow for two questions:
Will human beings have free will to choose the plan and will they choose it?
How much time will God allow humans to make that choice? An eternity? What is God’s timetable?
Hence, I embrace Inclusivism and annihilation as realities, the Eastern Orthodox explanation of Heaven and Hell as states - not places, and universalism as potential.
Then I embrace the explanation of many theological events from Eastern Orthodoxy: How it will unfold remains a divine mystery. God never told Julian of Norwich how all things will be well. Author Gregory MacDonald, Tiffany Snow and Dr. Bob Thiel, all outline various ways Apocatastasis might unfold (as well as folks here on the forum) - all equally possible.
If we look at the two largest Christian denominations:
Many in Eastern Orthodoxy are hopeful or potential universalists.
The Roman Catholic Church has embraced inclusivism since Vatican II and hope and pray for the universal salvation of all.