You also have to beware of throwing the baby out with the bath water. Calvinism is much more supported by Scripture than Arminianism. With the exception of eternal torment, I think all the major doctrines of Calvinism can be supported by Scripture. You ask about Limited Atonement. I believe it us true, if understood in conjunction with Election. God never intended for everyone to be part of the Elect. In one sense, everyone was atoned for at the cross. In another sense, only the Elect were atoned for out of all the masses of humanity to be enabled to become the Bride of Christ.
The Elect have a special destiny for Eternity. We are the bride of Christ, and shall be âco-rulers with Christ in heavenly placesâ for eternity. But if we shall be rulers, whom will we rule? The reconciled reprobate.
I look at it this way. All will enter into the kingdom of heaven (after being reconciled). But only the Elect will inherit the kingdom of heaven.
Is this fair, for some to be Elected to greater glory? My answer is to ask a related question. Is it fair for a man to select one woman to be his bride? It didnât mean he hates other woman. He just loves that one in a special manner.
Look at the prodigal son. The prodigal son was welcomed back with open arms by his father. But for the loyalty and faithfulness of the loyal son what was he rewarded? The Father says to him, âSon, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. But it was appropriate to celebrate and be glad, for this, your brother, was dead, and is alive again. He was lost, and is found.â (Luke 15:32 WEB)
In the parable of the Prodigal Son, we the Elect are the faithful son. We are always with the Father, taking episcopal care not to squander His grace he rains upon us, but rather using it to His glory. The prodigal Son is the reprobate. They squander the grace of God that He gives them (material blessings, talents, skills, etc.) For their own pleasure and glory. But in hell, they shall look up from their misery, see how they wasted what God gave them, and will beg for His mercy. And he will accept them.