Hi Sarah!
What I can’t stomach is bad teaching and I see is no where in scripture where God chooses or predestines any to be lost.
I don’t see double predestination in scripture so I would never teach nor would I entertain it. If it was there then I would teach it.
God hardens those who have already hardened their own hearts like Pharaoh, which is why I believe the sin of homosexuality is a strong sin as homosexuals believe they were born that way (which is true) just like we are all born susceptible to one sin or another but they don’t believe it is a sin which then causes them to harden their hearts but God only has so much patience before God turns them over to our sins…He gave them up…He gave them up…He gave them up which is what hardening means, “to let go”.
Once again God’s sovereignty is at play here. He shows judgment towards them by giving them up because they reject Him but He also shows mercy towards them in that God knows they will keep rejecting Him therefore any more exposure to the gospel will only increase their punishment in hell which is the reason that Jesus spoke in parables.
Nowhere in those verses does it say, God “predestine” those to be eternally condemned.
(Mathew 13:10-17)
The Purpose of the Parables
“Why do You speak to them in parables?” Jesus answered them, "To you it has been granted to know the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it has not been granted. For whoever has, to him more shall be given, and he will have an abundance; but whoever does not have, even what he has shall be taken away from him. Therefore I speak to them in parables; because while seeing they do not see, and while hearing they do not hear, nor do they understand. In their case the prophecy of Isaiah is being fulfilled, which says,
‘Hearing you will hear and shall not understand, And seeing you will see and not perceive; For the hearts of this people have grown dull. Their ears are hard of hearing, And their eyes they have closed, Lest they should see with their eyes and hear with their ears, Lest they should understand with their hearts and turn, So that I should heal them.’ But blessed are your eyes, because they see; and your ears, because they hear. For truly I say to you that many prophets and righteous men desired to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it"