While a lot of what is said on here is good natured and well-meaning I think there are better ways for us to say things. While I do not have all the answers I do have some suggestions.
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Before you post a reply to a comment stop and think of how it might sound. Is there any overly harsh language in there?
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Remember we are to speak as one who speaks the very words of God (1 Peter 4:11). Everything is for the building-up of the ecclesia, so always speak the truth in love.
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If something that someone has written gets you angry, take a moment to breath, maybe get something to drink. ASSUME that it was not intended to anger or insult you. Choose to not be offended (unless it is overtly insulting, then call them out on it, there is place for reproof).
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Pray before you respond, is this relevant? Will this be of any benefit to others? Be careful not to waste words, sometimes we get too careless with our words. A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare (Proverbs 15:1).
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Also think about this every-time you get on the computer: Text on a page is verrrrrryyyyy easy to misunderstand. In real life we can tell a lot better what a person means when they speak because they have inflection, facial-expression, and other body language. Again, ASSUME that everyone on here means things nicely and in return answer them nicely.
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For every word you will be found just and for every careless word you will be judged. A fitly spoken word is like apples of gold in settings of silver. Love that verse!
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Do to others as you would have them do to you. Take a second to put yourself in the other persons shoes and respect their opinions. It will help a lot.
Just some practical advice.** If anyone has some advice of their own please share it!** The reason I write this post is not to make anyone feel bad, I simply desire kind and thoughtful discussion all around.
Caleb
