Ewwww! Creepy creepy baby picture.
I guess it depends on your definition of free will. I would say a baby has a degree of free will, to cry, to sleep, to suckle. I’ve never yet managed to force a baby in my care to do anything
But they lack sufficient comprehension skills as yet to understand the ramifications of actions. But there is still some relationship with the Father there, in my opinion only
Like a little child might not understand how bonding works, evolutionary need to protect our offspring, the reason they exist or why they are cared for by this larger adult called mummy. What they do know is that when something hurts and they scream “mummy!”, this bigger person is instantly there, she will care for them even if the hurts are said child’s fault.
I tend to view all relationships to God in a relational sense, rather than a logistical one. I see scripture using different earthly relationships to mirror God’s interaction with his creatures, thus I think we have a template for how it ‘works’ with God, painted upon our own nature.
So for me, the free will question is far too simplified by many people; either into absolute free will to choose hell forever, or into a place where God is directly responsible for all our actions. I reckon it’s much more complicated and interesting than that. My own simple analogy sees God as our good father, who allows us freedom to learn and grow but at times intervenes when we try to place our hand on the stove. But occasionally, when the leash has been let out far enough, the child might still get burned.
This is why I’m universalist. God the Father is drawing His children to Himself, allowing them to grow into some semblance of autonomy. But I don’t believe ultimately this good father will allow any of His children to make irrevocable decisions about hellfire. He’s a good Father. I swear we find more of The Spirit of God in the biblical imagery of Him, rather than sometimes in the words themselves.
So yes, I find total free will theists inconsistent. But I also find reformed thinking illogical too