Hi Pat,
I followed your link and looked at your other post, which I thought was excellent. It is clear that you and I are thinking along similar lines. To illustrate that similarity, I’ll reproduce below three paragraphs from a chapter of my own in a forthcoming anthology on hell.
Here are the paragraphs from my chapter, which is entitled “Grace, Character Formation, and Predestination unto Glory”:
"It seems to me, however, that Arminian theology ultimately places a burden upon so-called libertarian freedom that it cannot coherently bear. If we all start out in a context of ambiguity, ignorance, and illusion, then it stands to reason that our salvation from this condition (and that our eventual perfection) would require, as the Christian faith implies, belief of a certain kind, faith, or (as I like to think of it) clarity of vision. And according to Paul in particular, these are gifts from God, the product of his providential control of our lives, rather than cognitive states that we somehow manufacture in ourselves simply by deciding to do so. But despite Paul’s clear teaching on this point, Arminian theologians typically speak of our deciding to believe something, as if our religious beliefs were properly under the control of our wills. In rightly opposing the Reformed understanding of limited election, for example, the Arminian theologian Jack Cottrell insists that “every sinner is able to make his own decision of whether to believe or not.” So just how are we to understand such frequently encountered religious language?
"It is utterly non-controversial, I presume, that a very simple empirical belief, such as the belief that fire can burn and cause terrible pain, is not properly a matter of the will at all. Someone might choose to walk near a fire, or to place a hand on a hot coal, or to experiment with fire in some other way, and relevantly similar choices might play an important role in someone’s discovering the true nature of fire. But once the consequences of such choices are experienced, the resulting belief that fire can burn and cause terrible pain is not itself the product of some further choice, much less of some libertarian free choice. For discovering the truth about something is very different from manufacturing a belief in oneself by an act of will—which is not even psychologically possible in many cases.
“Certainly religious beliefs are typically more complex than simple empirical beliefs, and some of them could, perhaps, involve the will in a host of subtle ways. As religious people typically understand it, moreover, belief in God goes far beyond a mere intellectual assent to the proposition that God exists; it also includes such attitudes as love, trust, and gratitude. So are these properly any more the product of choice or will than simple empirical beliefs are? I doubt it. I learned at a very early age to trust my mother implicitly—not because I decided to trust her, but because I discovered her to be altogether trustworthy. I also learned to love her—not because I decided to love her, but because she first loved me and demonstrated her love in thousands of ways. I have no doubt that certain free choices, if you will, were an important part of the process whereby I discovered my mother’s true character. For I was just as disobedient and snotty at times as any other child and just as rebellious during my teen years as many others are. But the free choices I made, both the good ones and the bad ones, merely provided my parents with additional opportunities to demonstrate their true character, and at no time in my life could I have freely chosen, so I believe, not to love them and at no time could I have freely chosen to separate myself from them altogether. There was simply never any motive to spurn the love of someone who always put my own interests first. And similarly for God, our supremely perfect Mother and Father: We learn to love him because he first loved us and will continue to demonstrate throughout all eternity, if necessary, his faithfulness in meeting our true spiritual needs and in satisfying our heart’s desire in the end. Accordingly, our free choices, whichever way they go, merely provide God with additional opportunities to demonstrate his true character and the true nature of his love for us, even as he continues to shatter our illusions and to correct our erroneous ways of thinking.”
End of quotation. As for your question about the fate of unbelievers after they die, I cannot be any more specific than this: I believe that God will act in their very best interest. Here is how I have expressed it elsewhere:
“It all boils down, I believe, to what kind of God we believe in. If we truly believe in the infinite love and wisdom of our Creator, then we will no longer fear, for example, that our Creator might permit an honest mistake in abstract theology to jeopardize our future. We will simply proceed in the confidence that he knows us from the inside out far better than we know ourselves; that he will appreciate the ambiguities, the confusions, and the perplexities we face far better than we do; and that he will understand the historical and cultural factors that shape our beliefs far better than any historian does. Such a Creator–loving, intimate, and wise–would know how to work with each of us in infinitely complex ways, how to shatter our illusions and transform our thinking when necessary, and how best to reveal himself to us in the end.”
Thanks for calling my attention to your excellent post.
-Tom