Steve, Paul is speaking of the Jewish law.
Matthew 15:19 "These people honor me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me. they worship me in vain. They teach as doctrine, commandments of men."
Col. 2:22 'These will all perish with use because they are based on human commands and teachings."
Mark 7:8 “For laying aside the commandments of God, you hold to the traditions of men, as the washing of pots and cups, and many other such things you do.”
I agree. He did not honor His father and mother. If He was not in the wrong, there would have been no reason to mention that He was 12, just under the age of accountability.
If Jesus wasn’t human, he would not have needed the enabling of the Holy Spirit.