Hi Steve
I think you cut right to the heart of the “problem” posed by the so-called genocide texts. I’m no Bible scholar - I have gaps in my Bible reading and knowledge big enough to drive a convoy of trucks through - but I certainly do not know of any direct, cast iron scriptural evidence for actual genocide, carried out as the will of God. (Although one might argue that final clause is redundant, under the circumstances.)
Neither do I have the knowledge or the scholarship to give an opinion on whether archaeological or extra-Biblical evidence indicates this to be the case or not. (Although Dick, for example, who has read widely on these subjects, has argued that it does not.)
I agree that reading the genocide texts as hyperbole of the “I’ll kill you for that!” variety is legitimate. I also agree that, as you say, “Many of the poems in the Psalms are lost to us (I think) because we just don’t speak that way today.”
As you know, I have a strong commitment to the - for me - defining concept that God never commands genocide, and indeed is incapable of doing so, because it would be a contradiction of his essence as love. I would just add the thought that, for me, this is not us ‘judging God’; rather it is us using the moral sense he has instilled in us, to ‘judge’ certain things in the Bible.
I know my beliefs might be seen as either naive or arrogant (among other things ). But this is something I ‘feel’ in my heart as fiercely as I ‘feel’ that Universalism is true.
All the best
Johnny