“Therefore I run in such a way, as not without aim; I box in such a way, as not beating the air; 27 but I discipline my body and make it my slave, so that, after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified.” - I Cor. 9:26-27
The idea that we should forgive pastor and teachers so that they could go back to preaching the gospel is abhorrant to me. God doesn’t need disqualified preachers. He can raise up rock to sing His praises. Pastor are held to high standards for a reason. They are to be an example. And any pastor who is involved in gross or negligent sin should not be preaching any longer. They can certainly serve the Lord in other areas, after being restored, but they cannot be a leader.
A person’s conception of God will affect how they will behave, certainly, even emulating the judgment and condemnation they believe God should mete out to evildoers. But I feel that people who subject others to religious abuse aren’t necessarily doing it because they believe they are doing favors for God. They are doing it because it give them a sense of power to control. They develop a superiority complex over those they supposedly shepherd and think of themselves higher than they should. The higher they climb that pedestal, the more dangerous they become, and the harder they will fall.