Hi rsipper,
I posted a question similar to this a few weeks ago (Problem of Hell vs Problem of Heaven).
At least from a common-sense view, it doesn’t seem like we deserve Hell (though sometimes Calvinists say that our common sense isn’t to be trusted in these matters, for God’s ways aren’t our ways). Still, that wouldn’t be a sufficient argument for universalism, but it might be a sufficient argument against Calvinism.
Isn’t it possible (or fair) for Hell to be true if Arminianism is T; that is, if we have the freedom to choose/reject God rather than a punishment that is imposed on us (this might be an Arminian soteriology blended with the thought of C.S. Lewis highlighted in “The Great Divorce”, where there is no deadline for salvation, but unfortunately people still reject God in the afterlife despite God’s reaching out to them)?
Also, though we may not deserve Hell, perhaps annihilationism is T and God punishes the reprobate simply by putting them out of existence.
What if God were to grant us long lives, and even extend our lives into the afterlife, but not infinitely long?
Of course, I want universalism to be T, but I think we have to be careful to let sentiment carry us too far (though I think sentiment/emotion is one way God reveals T). However, I think you’re right and many times people who argue for Hell or ECT aren’t trusting their emotions at all, but are sort of stoically adhering to a systematic theology. I think we have to look at the intermediate options b4 claiming that universalism is T. However, if this is a successful argument against Calvinism, then we are a few steps closer to showing universalism to be T at least