The Bible speaks of a universal love that God has for everybody. (God’s essence is love) There is however a special dimension to God’s love. The fact that God loved Jacob and hated Esau proves this point. Here we are seeing a love/hate contrast that shows God loves some more than others. Jesus spoke of this when He said, "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple (Luke 14:26). Jesus is not saying have an attitude of hostility towards them. What He is saying is that we ought to love Him above all others. The word “hate” is used this way to mean “loved less” in Genesis:
This doesn’t mean that all won’t eventually be saved. Only that God has a special love for some before all make it to heaven. We also see this special love in this scripture:
This passage corresponds with the command to show special love to believers:
God has a chosen people in this lifetime who are saved by grace. The goats undergo the corrective punishment in hell. For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth - Proverbs 3:12
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God corrects those He loves
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God loves everybody
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Nobody suffers forever
To harmonize the scriptures Kolasis must be interpreted as meaning correction. After all that is it’s meaning in Greek.