Lies there not within the man and the woman a divine element of brotherhood, of sisterhood, a something lovely and lovable?–slowly fading, it may be!–dying away under the fierce heat of vile passions, or the yet more fearful cold of sepulchral selfishness!–yet there? Shall that divine something–which, once awakened to be its own holy self in the man, will loathe these unlovely things tenfold more than we loathe them now–shall this divine thing have no recognition from us?!
It is the very presence of this fading humanity that even makes it possible for us to hate! If it were an animal only, and not a man or a woman that did us hurt, we should not hate: we should only kill. We hate the man just because we are prevented from loving him. We push over the verge of the creation–we damn–just because we cannot embrace. For to embrace is the necessity of our deepest being.
That foiled, we hate. Instead of admonishing ourselves that there is our enchained brother, that there lies our enchanted, disfigured, scarce recognizable sister, captive of the devil–to break, how much sooner, from their bonds, that we love them!–we instead recoil into the hate which would fix them there; and the dearly lovable reality of them we sacrifice to the outer falsehood of Satan’s incantations, thus leaving them to perish. Nay, we murder them to get rid of them!–we hate them.
Yet within that which is most obnoxious to our hate, lies that which, could it but show itself as it is, and as it will show itself one day, would compel from our hearts a devotion of love. It is not the unfriendly, the unlovely, that we are told to love, but the brother, the sister, who is unkind, who is unlovely. Shall we leave our brother to his desolate fate? Shall we not rather say, “With my love at least shalt thou be compassed about, for thou hast not thy own lovingness to infold thee; love shall come as near thee as it may; and when thine comes forth to meet mine, we shall be one in the indwelling God”?
Let no one say I have been speaking in a figure merely. That I have been so speaking, I know. But many things which we see most vividly and certainly are more truly expressed by using a right figure, than by attempting to give them a clear outline of logical expression. My figure means a truth.