I agree LLC, even tho I believe in speaking in tongues in a more Charismatic or Pentecostal sense.
Paul was very clear as well about the use of that gift(whatever one believes it involves) in the assembly. All things were to be done decently and in order, tongues were only to be spoken with interpretation.
One who speaks in a tongue edifies himself; but one who prophesies edifies the church. 5Now I wish that you all spoke in tongues, but even more that you would prophesy; and greater is one who prophesies than one who speaks in tongues, unless he interprets, so that the church may receive edifying. 6But now, brethren, if I come to you speaking in tongues, what will I profit you unless I speak to you either by way of revelation or of knowledge or of prophecy or of teaching?…1 Cor 14:6
“What then shall we say, brothers and sisters? When you come together, each of you has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation. Everything must be done so that the church may be built up.” 1 Cor 14:26
In the early church it appears there was much more participation by diverse members of the assembly and whatever they shared was subject to discussion for the purpose of discernment. “Let the prophets speak two or three and let the others judge. Test all things, hold fast that which is good.”
Today people take the word “prophets” as those who speak futuristic prophecies or reveal secrets, but Paul saw a broader understanding- “For you can all prophesy one by one, so that all may learn and all may be exhorted; 32and the spirits of prophets are subject to prophets”- instruction and exhortation appear to be the primary purpose of prophesying- which I believe was teaching or preaching in an orderly manner.
Ecstatic speaking in the assembly was not encouraged by Paul, but rather “speaking the truth in love” unto the edification of the body so that…
As a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming; but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ, from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love. Eph 4